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Giving amazing head is something that every woman should know how to do, but unfortunately most women just don’t give great head.  That’s sad because guys love a great blow job and you can provide so much pleasure to your guy when you do it right just.  It adds a whole new addition to your sexual repertoire.

If you’re been brainwashed to believe that blow jobs are ‘dirty’ or ‘gross’ or something that only hookers perform, then you have to learn to lose that attitude.  We all have darker desires, your man included, and if you don’t share in his darker desires then he might just seek them elsewhere.

Sexuality has many facets, including love making, but it also should include a little edge every now and then.  All guys watch porn and love porn, I don’t care what you may have heard to the contrary.  So, give you man a slightly naughty porn star style blow job and he’s going to love you for it.

It’s all about getting yourself in the right spirit and acknowledging your own sexiness.  Don’t hold back, open up to your own inner dark side.  Once you’ve won that battle it’s all about getting your blow job technique down pat.

Techniques should be practiced in order to really get good at giving head.  So practice on your man and practice with a sex toy or maybe a big carrot, something penis shaped obviously.  This way you’ll be a pro within a few weeks, guaranteed, even faster if you get into it.

In order for a blow job to be pleasurable you’re going to have to not let your teeth get in the way.  We’re simulating our vagina and our vagina doesn’t have any sharp teeth, now does it?  The best way to avoid your teeth from scraping on your man’s penis is to open up wide and use your tongue, your lips, and the sides of your mouth to block your teeth from even touching his penis.

If you’ve ever watched a porno movies you’ll notice that these skilled women can give head at super fast speeds without any teeth scraping – this is your goal.  Commit to it and learn.

Get the pressure and speeds right, along with not scraping your teeth and your man is going to be in heaven.  Generally a faster speed and a nice steady sucking pressure do the trick perfectly.  Watch your man’s expressions to see if you’re doing to right…if you are you’ll know!  Remember to be sexy, vary your speeds, use a sexy voice and make sexy eye contact.  Your man is going to blowing his top…and his wad, faster than you think.

Jenny

So do you really need props to give amazing head, well not exactly you could suffice with your mouth, hands tongue lips etc or you could spice things up a bit by using these props, Now remember after a while it is the same bedroom, the same man the same woman, and the same body parts so make things a bit interesting by getting new stuff into the picture. Let’s talk about what can be used as a blow job prop? Eatables of course, something that can be licked or sucked off etc.

Chocolate syrup: This is of course the most common prop of a blow job after imagine your mans’ shaft tasting like  dark chocolate and can you imagine how much fun its going to be to lick the chocolate off of him.

Honey: This is a slight variation to great tasting licky stuff; honey is different from chocolate because the more you lick the thirstier you get and the more you want to lick, so you certainly will get quiet a few moans with this one.

Then I have also heard girls trying out strawberry daiquiri and have had lots of fun with it.

The ice cube:  Giving a blow job with an ice cube in your mouth can create some of the most interesting sensations for your man, the cold of the ice mingling with the heat of your mouth.

The strawberry: There are also girls who like to place a strawberry on the head of the penis and suck it with the man’s head in their mouth.

turn the heat up:

There is an element of pleasure in yearning for something as sensual as a blow job but you should not when the yearn turns into frustration and avoid this point, start with a little teasing,

Tie your mans hands to the bed and go down on him , making him squirm then stopping just for a bit till he is pleading you to take him in your mouth and suck the day lights out of him. One of my personal favorites in when  you play the ‘no touch’ game with your man, the best position for this one is with the man lying on his back and you kneel on the bed and take your mouth to his penis. The trick here is that you should be in a position where your man can touch your head and guide you on but the game is that the moment he touches you, you stop your ministration; this can get very interesting if done right.

Try giving head to your man in front of the mirror another sexy play is to pleasure yourself while you give your man oral, there are very few things in the world for a man that are half as sexy as watching a woman pleasure herself.

Try doing something incredibly naughty like taking him out for a drive and giving him a blow job on a secluded road, ensure that its a real secluded road, you certainly don’t want to cops to play the spoil sports and of course don’t try this when he is driving it can get dangerous literally.

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Becoming the “Queen” of blow jobs is not an easy task. It requires a few imporant things. First, you need talent. But it’s worthless if you don’t practice. Second, you need dedication – no one is born with knowledge, you have to create it by practicing, failing and succeeding. Third – you need proper information. From someone that knows what he’s talking about. Yes, that’s me.

Keep in mind that you don’t need to be the “queen of queens” - chances are, that your blow job skills are average. If you can shoot just a bit above that, you’ll already be way ahead of the competition. And your competition sucks. 93% of girls out there don’t give good head. I just made up the 93%, but you get the picture. I know that from the hundreds of girls that gave me head, that most of them are either bad, or average. The one’s that can do only a few things better than average, it doesn’t matter wheter it’s talking dirty, moaning, or making eye contact – are already much better than average. That’s what you should aim at as a start.

Get good at the basics. Aquire a good attitude, smile, moan, have fun – apply more pressure, try to feel his vibe, follow his reactions – over time, you’ll get better. Once you’re good at the basic stuff, then you can go for learning some cool techniques that will bring in the real results. He’ll be begging you to give him blow jobs every day and hour of the week.

It’s more important that you learn how to control and guide his emotions during a blow job than using some special technique which you’ve probably read in another one of Cosmo’s & Co’s articles. That they don’t tell you. Read between the lines, always. are hard to find, and guys know that – when we run into an angel that can make us go wild and crazy, we don’t even look at other girls, let alone think about cheating, or attempt it.

Most guys don’t even know what a great blow job actually looks like. A least make sure you’re better than all of his ex’s – otherwise he’ll always be thinking how the one before you was better at blow jobs, and he’ll be imagining her face while you’re giving him head. That would be crap, but don’t think too much about it, don’t stress too much – it will have a negative effect on your performance.

Now, go out there and practice once you’ve got the right information. Have fun,

Jack

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I appreciate ladies that are prepared to invest a tiny bit of effort into learning how to give good blow jobs. It is kind of a skill. Any girl can do it competently with just a small amount of practice and the right information. Sadly , most advice you can find online, or from your girlfriends – is false. It sort of misses the essence of the blow job. I have been asked for advice on “blowjob techniques” numerous times – that’s all nice. And techniques can often help – but why can’t you girls know that it is NOT about the techniques. Good techniques are just a tiny part of a great blow job.

It is more a psychological than a physical thing – if you truly want to blow his mind – then get the important things right first, and learning great blow job techniques will be simpler later. Most men like the same stuff, a few of them enjoy different methods more than the other – but each one of them enjoy a girl that knows the right way to behave, knows what to say, the way to say it and the way to create a show for him, a genuine performance.

So long as you aren’t scratching him and wounding him with your teeth – your technique is O.K. Now, what I advise is that you try to connect with your man on a deeper level. Try and feel his body, feel his energy on a deeper level. When you slowly start giving him a blow job, look enthusiastically deep into his eyes. He’ll see your dirty, sexy smile, your love and lust towards giving him great pleasure. Your wild desire to suck each single drop of “love potion” out of him.

He will see it in your eyes, the fire, the love towards him and giving him satisfaction. He will be able to see this is turning YOU on more than anything else in the world, and he is the one that’s giving YOU incredible pleasure, just from letting you enjoy his member. You smile at him, in a naughty and naive way. You lick your lips, then bite them lips a bit so you appear a bit naive, but naughty at the same time. You warm him up by caressing his testicles, playing with them, entertained and entranced by them.

Entranced by what’s to come, enjoying each second of it – giving it some slow licks, soft and attractive sucks with moans that vibrate through his cock. You are fully awakened, you’re feeling like you are on the point of getting the most savory treat on Earth. And then you go for it. Like there’s no tomorrow, you swallow every single drop of his “love potion” and moan in pleasure.

Mind blowing oral sex – or death. Enthusiasm girls, it’s all about having the right attitude.

As far as a blow job goes there are a few aspects that may be thought of as foreplay, from the way that you look to how you get your mouth ready. So let’s begin with the 1st step : Getting your mouth prepared: it’s extremely important to have a well lubricated mouth for a good blow job. If your mouth is too dry not merely will the guy not like it but also your jaw will tire fast and you’ll be uncomfortable which may at once impact the blokes experience. Begin by drinking a little water or some juice so that your mouth can salivate adequately. You have to be well hydrated prior to starting so this is an essential.

Getting your body prepared : lots of girls feel that if they are good with their mouth, they can be wearing their mom’s pajamas and they might still give their man a good blow job ; this could not be further from reality. Girls, you want to understand that a blow job is about a total experience not nearly your mouth on your fellows John Thomas while you are thinking about that vampire from Twilight.

Remember, your attitude is supreme – the rest comes in later on so turn yourself into a hot porn star for your man. Dress up horny, hot and even slutty. Create a show for him, make it memorable, make it unique, something he’ll think about first when he thinks about you.

Make your assets stand out; for example, if you should happen to feel that your breast are tiny get a push up bra, couple them with lace thongs regardless of whether you wear cotton pants to your real job ; remember this isn’t about comfort, this is about making your bloke hot and hard. Get on that bright red lipstick as it is extraordinarily hot for a person to see his shaft being engulfed by bright red lips. Let’s move to the following part of a good blow job.

Getting him hard : This is the second step ; not all men can get it up anytime and anywhere ; then there are others who are living with an erection, but mostly you’re going to need to give your man a little kick to get him where you want him to be. You can start slow with a kiss on the lips and tracing your mouth down his neck to his chest and then to his crotch or you might give him a little taste of things that he’ll get by suggestively licking and sucking his fingers so he knows that this is how you mean to caress his dick.

Another approach is to start by rubbing him through his trousers or shorts, select a situation where you need to start and begin kissing his knob hungrily, look into his eyes, grin and show him you need his shaft in your mouth real, real bad, while you are kissing his member, massage his testicles carefully to get him hard quicker. An exceedingly sensitive spot is on the bottom of the shaft right above his testicles, press this spot with 2 fingers as it is terribly delicate and watch your man moan in pleasure. Keep on fiddling with diverse blow job techniques in time you’ll work out what gets him hard fast and go nuts.

So, your wife can’t give a blow job to save her own life.  That is just too awful.  But, it’s not too late to turn things around.  Most women don’t really realize how important steady sessions of good head is to pleasing their man.  You’ve got to educate your wife on this.

Sit her down and tell her that you love your sex life but that you’d like to spice it up a bit with some more oral sex.   She loves you, so even if see doesn’t really like it she’ll most likely oblige you.  Now, you’ve got to guide her, teach her, and educate her fully on what you like in your blow job.

You know your own penis better than anyone so you know what you like.  Tell her.  Is she going too slowly?  Ask her to speed up her strokes.  Don’t be critical too much though, say something like, “oh baby, that feels wonderful,but could you go a little faster?”  And then when she gets to the right speed, say, “oh that’s it, perfect.”

This way you’re teaching her and you’re rewarding her for getting better and it’s not all criticism all the time.  Some woman are very timid and don’t take criticism well, you have to balance your criticisms with your praise…and soon enough you’ll have your wife trained on how to give you the perfect blow job.  Nice work!

Pressure is a huge factor when it comes to a great blow job, your wife probably doesn’t know how to create the exact right pressure, so guide her.  Also, let her know that any amount of teeth on your penis is going to hurt you, and ask her to avoid contact between her teeth and your penis.

Also let her know that a gentle sucking is what’s needed.  Again, you know your penis, so guide her.  If she’s going too softly ask her to suck a little harder, if she’s going too hard then ask her to release some of the suction.

Not all women are comfortable in their sexuality.  Encourage your wife in her sexuality, tell her that you love her and that you find her attractive.  Throw in a little dirty talk.  If you do this your wife is going to open up more and feel more comfortable about giving you an ultra sexy blow job.

Ask her to look you in the eye and tell you what an amazing penis you have.  Once she loosens up, you’re going to have a wife that’s not only great at giving a blow job but one that actually loves it.

Jenny

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Getting your blow job technique down is very important to pleasuring your man.  But, it’s only half the battle, the other half is finding your inner blow job queen and cultivating the right attitude.  This is not a chore, ladies, this is not something to only do on holidays.  This is your sex life and in order to make it red hot you’re going to have to learn how to give great head and love it.

That’s really the big secret, and the best tip that anyone can give you.  You’ve got to love it.  You’ve got to find your inner slut, your inner Las Vegas stripper, your inner ten dollar whore.  Be a freak between the sheets and a lady on the streets.  That’s what every man is looking for in a women and that’s the secret.

Slobber on that cock, pop it in and out of your mouth, tell your guy how much you love that big, hard cock in your month.  Stroke it with your hands, suck on the head, nibble on the sides, lick it from top to bottom.  Guys in today’s day and age watch a lot of porn, I hope that’s not a big shocker to anyone.  This is the kind of blow job that they are used to watching and this is the kind of blow job that they want.  They might never tell you that in a million years.  But, once you give it to him, you’ll realize that that’s what he’s be dreaming of all along.

Now that the correct attitude has been shaped it’s all about getting pro technique.  A pro whore can make a guy come within several minutes tops.  What do you think’s going on in those private rooms at strip clubs?  Those girls are in and out of there in under ten minutes, with an extra C note tucked into their undies.  That’s technique.

Remember this, it’s about all about rhythm, speed, and correct pressure.  Think about sex, there’s a rhythm to it, right?  This is what’s needed when giving a blow job.  A nice steady rhythm is key here, imagine a nice upbeat tempo in your head and suck it, girl.  Speeds should vary, start slowly and build.  In order to make your guy erupt though, enough velocity is needed so build up to a climax and he’ll climax too.

Getting the pressure correct is a huge obstacle for many girls, you’ll want to experiment, not too soft and not too hard.  Use your guy’s reaction as your guide and you’ll do splendidly.

Jenny

You probably first learned how to give a hand job in high school, and perhaps you learned how to blow right around the same time.  But, that doesn’t make you good at it.  In fact, most girls are pretty god awful at giving hand jobs and blow jobs.  Listen up and learn how to do it right, ladies.

Do not slide an unlubricated hand all across and over a guy’s penis.  Ouch, that’s going to hurt.  The key to giving a guy an amazing hand job is to grasp the cock firmly just below the head and slide his skin over his hardening erection.  Read that again, and absorb it.  Most girls don’t know this.

Don’t let go of the skin, and remember use a firm grip that’s held in place.  If you have some lotion or use saliva, then it’s a whole new ball game and you don’t have to be as careful.  Using lubricants is going to allow your hand to slide over the penis without irritating the skin.  Game on.

Of course, if you’re going to be giving him a blow job later, it’s best not to use lotion, just use your spit, you don’t want to gag on the chemicals inside the lotion.  Eww.

Combining a hand job with a blow job is what the pro whores do.  It’s advanced cock sucking 101, so if you want to make your man’s head spin, you’ve got to get this down.  No matter what you’ve been told or read in some back issue of Cosmo, this is how your guy want’s his cock played with.

Now, the first place to start is to get that cock all wet.  Let your drool drip down his penis, spit on it, suck it and make sure that it’s fully coated with a nice healthy dose of saliva.  Saliva makes an excellent lubricant, hell guys have been jacking off with their own spit from thousands of years.  Haha.

The top part of the penis is for sucking and the bottom is for stroking with your hands.  Use two hands, girls.  As your mouth completes a stroke your hands should also complete their stroke, this way it’s like your mouth and hands are one gigantic entity completely engulfing the entire shaft.  Move your hands up and down and twist like your using a pepper grinder.

As with any blow job or hand job, finding the right pressure and slowly building in speed and intensity is one of the keys to success.  Find your own sweet spot and stay in it.  Wait for the come shot and swallow.  Nice work.

It’s a known fact – just about all men love to have their penis sucked.

Blow jobs are great, we all know that. But  quite often, a woman who at first is eager to oblige will somehow go off the idea the further you get into a relationship.

To a great degree this might be your fault, and there are a couple of really easy things you can do about it. Here are five really easy things you can do to improve your blow job score card.

Keep your penis clean

This may sound pretty obvious, but some guys just don’t understand that women hate performing felatio on an unwashed penis. One guy told me of an incident that illustrates this very well. He met a women at a party who was very interested in getting intimate with him. She took him to one side and said that if he washed his penis and testicles in the bathroom immediately, she would blow him outside in the car. He now understands that it’s always good to be prepared.

On this point, it’s a good idea to have a man-douche right before a date. Sometimes it even helps to wash underneath your balls and even your anus. If there is a bidet handy and you can operate it – use it.

Once you are in a relationship, it is easy to forget to keep yourself clean in your intimate areas, but it can go a long way towards ensuring you get oral sex on a regular basis.

Tell her when you are about to come

A lot of women do not mind the taste of semen – some even love it. However, even the ones that can swallow aren’t always in the mood for it. A little warning just ahead of time shows that you are not a selfish bastard (even if you are). If you are lucky, she might let you give her a facial as a reward for your thoughtfulness.

Do not push her head down

This maneuver is not very well received among women, even though it might be a common scenario in x-rated movies. It can be seen as a great sign of disrespect. On the other hand, if your woman asks you to do this, why not? If she is being swept away in the passion of  the moment, then go for it!

Tell her you love what she is doing to you

Don’t talk non-stop while she is giving you oral sex, but a little word of encouragement every now and then is always appreciated. If she likes dirty talk during the blow job session, then join in the fun – just don’t overdo it by calling her nasty names. That can be a real turn off for women.

Return the favor

Women will appreciate it if you go down on them as much as you expect them to do it for you. Women these days are not at all put off by men expressing a desire to perform cunnilingus on them. Sexually switched-on women might even expect it of you before you get your blow job. So, keep her happy orally, and you will get the same!

Use these five simple tips, and you will be getting plenty of blow jobs from your woman.

Sadly , most girls believe that a blow job is all about sucking on a guys penis. Well that is one part of the story; a good blow job is one where you fire up your man’s senses and put him in a sensory overload, you want him to cum hard don’t you? So here are a few tips on the most effective way to use your hands, mouth and the other organs of your body to give your man a blow job he’ll never forget.

Your hands : Use them for gripping the shaft and stroking up and back down to imitate the sensation of intercourse, you must understand that your mouth is only one part of what goes into the makings for a proper blow job.

Just using your mouth would be like attempting to cook just with veg when you have a range of spices just waiting to be used ; use your hands, fingers, lips, tongue, mouth, and teeth to give your man a blow job which will make him quiver in pleasure. Hold the shaft in your hand and start with light strokes, it’s vital to give him head as your hands work their sorcery on his member; the critical thing to keep under consideration when stroking your mans ‘ shaft is to extend the rate and pressure as you get down to business.

At the start you can begin with slow strokes but go quicker towards the end ; most fellows will struggle to come with just sucking so you would like to stroke your man. The mouth : the larger your mouth the better it is, though not all girls have Angelina Jolie’s lips, essentially more than the visual appeal of a giant mouth is a real treat popularized through modern porn. ; it’s actually due to this that fellows compare a giant mouth and an to a potentially great blowjob. But honestly a girl with thin lips and a little mouth can also give in an equally good, and of course, a better blow job. Big lips don’t guarantee anything. The most vital thing is to go in confidently.

Take your man’s shaft in your mouth and roll your tongue on the head ; this is the most fragile part. Then, start sucking on it rigorously. Initially, slowly rising the pace and pressure as you go on. The tongue: Throw your tongue out like a porn star, this way, you’ll be making more space in your mouth to accommodate your mans cock.

Give particular attention with your tongue to the base of his cock, where the head meets the shaft ; this should drive your guy insane with pleasure.

The eyes : look him in the eyes as you suck him and moan softly or look him in the eyes and say ‘ahha ‘ as you stand by to take his cock in your mouth. Where should you touch him? The head of his cock: This is the tip of the shaft that’s the most fragile part, so use your tongue in each possible part of it

The shaft: Get a firm grip round the shaft, not merely will it be faster to manipulate his member as you give him a blow job but also it feels fabulous for the guy because its like being within a tight vagina The balls : these are also extremely fragile so massage them with love and care, you may also lick, kiss and suck them softly ; while you are sucking his head and using one hand to stroke him, use the other to massage his balls to make him feel a like he’s in heaven and cum crazily.

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