Giving amazing head is something that every woman should know how to do, but unfortunately most women just don’t give great head. That’s sad because guys love a great blow job and you can provide so much pleasure to your guy when you do it right just. It adds a whole new addition to your sexual repertoire.
If you’re been brainwashed to believe that blow jobs are ‘dirty’ or ‘gross’ or something that only hookers perform, then you have to learn to lose that attitude. We all have darker desires, your man included, and if you don’t share in his darker desires then he might just seek them elsewhere.
Sexuality has many facets, including love making, but it also should include a little edge every now and then. All guys watch porn and love porn, I don’t care what you may have heard to the contrary. So, give you man a slightly naughty porn star style blow job and he’s going to love you for it.
It’s all about getting yourself in the right spirit and acknowledging your own sexiness. Don’t hold back, open up to your own inner dark side. Once you’ve won that battle it’s all about getting your blow job technique down pat.
Techniques should be practiced in order to really get good at giving head. So practice on your man and practice with a sex toy or maybe a big carrot, something penis shaped obviously. This way you’ll be a pro within a few weeks, guaranteed, even faster if you get into it.
In order for a blow job to be pleasurable you’re going to have to not let your teeth get in the way. We’re simulating our vagina and our vagina doesn’t have any sharp teeth, now does it? The best way to avoid your teeth from scraping on your man’s penis is to open up wide and use your tongue, your lips, and the sides of your mouth to block your teeth from even touching his penis.
If you’ve ever watched a porno movies you’ll notice that these skilled women can give head at super fast speeds without any teeth scraping – this is your goal. Commit to it and learn.
Get the pressure and speeds right, along with not scraping your teeth and your man is going to be in heaven. Generally a faster speed and a nice steady sucking pressure do the trick perfectly. Watch your man’s expressions to see if you’re doing to right…if you are you’ll know! Remember to be sexy, vary your speeds, use a sexy voice and make sexy eye contact. Your man is going to blowing his top…and his wad, faster than you think.
So do you really need props to give amazing head, well not exactly you could suffice with your mouth, hands tongue lips etc or you could spice things up a bit by using these props, Now remember after a while it is the same bedroom, the same man the same woman, and the same body parts so make things a bit interesting by getting new stuff into the picture. Let’s talk about what can be used as a blow job prop? Eatables of course, something that can be licked or sucked off etc.
Chocolate syrup: This is of course the most common prop of a blow job after imagine your mans’ shaft tasting like dark chocolate and can you imagine how much fun its going to be to lick the chocolate off of him.
Honey: This is a slight variation to great tasting licky stuff; honey is different from chocolate because the more you lick the thirstier you get and the more you want to lick, so you certainly will get quiet a few moans with this one.
Then I have also heard girls trying out strawberry daiquiri and have had lots of fun with it.
The ice cube: Giving a blow job with an ice cube in your mouth can create some of the most interesting sensations for your man, the cold of the ice mingling with the heat of your mouth.
The strawberry: There are also girls who like to place a strawberry on the head of the penis and suck it with the man’s head in their mouth.
turn the heat up:
There is an element of pleasure in yearning for something as sensual as a blow job but you should not when the yearn turns into frustration and avoid this point, start with a little teasing,
Tie your mans hands to the bed and go down on him , making him squirm then stopping just for a bit till he is pleading you to take him in your mouth and suck the day lights out of him. One of my personal favorites in when you play the ‘no touch’ game with your man, the best position for this one is with the man lying on his back and you kneel on the bed and take your mouth to his penis. The trick here is that you should be in a position where your man can touch your head and guide you on but the game is that the moment he touches you, you stop your ministration; this can get very interesting if done right.
Try giving head to your man in front of the mirror another sexy play is to pleasure yourself while you give your man oral, there are very few things in the world for a man that are half as sexy as watching a woman pleasure herself.
Try doing something incredibly naughty like taking him out for a drive and giving him a blow job on a secluded road, ensure that its a real secluded road, you certainly don’t want to cops to play the spoil sports and of course don’t try this when he is driving it can get dangerous literally.
I appreciate ladies that are prepared to invest a tiny bit of effort into learning how to give good blow jobs. It is kind of a skill. Any girl can do it competently with just a small amount of practice and the right information. Sadly , most advice you can find online, or from your girlfriends – is false. It sort of misses the essence of the blow job. I have been asked for advice on “blowjob techniques” numerous times – that’s all nice. And techniques can often help – but why can’t you girls know that it is NOT about the techniques. Good techniques are just a tiny part of a great blow job.
It is more a psychological than a physical thing – if you truly want to blow his mind – then get the important things right first, and learning great blow job techniques will be simpler later. Most men like the same stuff, a few of them enjoy different methods more than the other – but each one of them enjoy a girl that knows the right way to behave, knows what to say, the way to say it and the way to create a show for him, a genuine performance.
So long as you aren’t scratching him and wounding him with your teeth – your technique is O.K. Now, what I advise is that you try to connect with your man on a deeper level. Try and feel his body, feel his energy on a deeper level. When you slowly start giving him a blow job, look enthusiastically deep into his eyes. He’ll see your dirty, sexy smile, your love and lust towards giving him great pleasure. Your wild desire to suck each single drop of “love potion” out of him.
He will see it in your eyes, the fire, the love towards him and giving him satisfaction. He will be able to see this is turning YOU on more than anything else in the world, and he is the one that’s giving YOU incredible pleasure, just from letting you enjoy his member. You smile at him, in a naughty and naive way. You lick your lips, then bite them lips a bit so you appear a bit naive, but naughty at the same time. You warm him up by caressing his testicles, playing with them, entertained and entranced by them.
Entranced by what’s to come, enjoying each second of it – giving it some slow licks, soft and attractive sucks with moans that vibrate through his cock. You are fully awakened, you’re feeling like you are on the point of getting the most savory treat on Earth. And then you go for it. Like there’s no tomorrow, you swallow every single drop of his “love potion” and moan in pleasure.
Mind blowing oral sex – or death. Enthusiasm girls, it’s all about having the right attitude.
So, your wife can’t give a blow job to save her own life. That is just too awful. But, it’s not too late to turn things around. Most women don’t really realize how important steady sessions of good head is to pleasing their man. You’ve got to educate your wife on this.
Sit her down and tell her that you love your sex life but that you’d like to spice it up a bit with some more oral sex. She loves you, so even if see doesn’t really like it she’ll most likely oblige you. Now, you’ve got to guide her, teach her, and educate her fully on what you like in your blow job.
You know your own penis better than anyone so you know what you like. Tell her. Is she going too slowly? Ask her to speed up her strokes. Don’t be critical too much though, say something like, “oh baby, that feels wonderful,but could you go a little faster?” And then when she gets to the right speed, say, “oh that’s it, perfect.”
This way you’re teaching her and you’re rewarding her for getting better and it’s not all criticism all the time. Some woman are very timid and don’t take criticism well, you have to balance your criticisms with your praise…and soon enough you’ll have your wife trained on how to give you the perfect blow job. Nice work!
Pressure is a huge factor when it comes to a great blow job, your wife probably doesn’t know how to create the exact right pressure, so guide her. Also, let her know that any amount of teeth on your penis is going to hurt you, and ask her to avoid contact between her teeth and your penis.
Also let her know that a gentle sucking is what’s needed. Again, you know your penis, so guide her. If she’s going too softly ask her to suck a little harder, if she’s going too hard then ask her to release some of the suction.
Not all women are comfortable in their sexuality. Encourage your wife in her sexuality, tell her that you love her and that you find her attractive. Throw in a little dirty talk. If you do this your wife is going to open up more and feel more comfortable about giving you an ultra sexy blow job.
Ask her to look you in the eye and tell you what an amazing penis you have. Once she loosens up, you’re going to have a wife that’s not only great at giving a blow job but one that actually loves it.
You probably first learned how to give a hand job in high school, and perhaps you learned how to blow right around the same time. But, that doesn’t make you good at it. In fact, most girls are pretty god awful at giving hand jobs and blow jobs. Listen up and learn how to do it right, ladies.
Do not slide an unlubricated hand all across and over a guy’s penis. Ouch, that’s going to hurt. The key to giving a guy an amazing hand job is to grasp the cock firmly just below the head and slide his skin over his hardening erection. Read that again, and absorb it. Most girls don’t know this.
Don’t let go of the skin, and remember use a firm grip that’s held in place. If you have some lotion or use saliva, then it’s a whole new ball game and you don’t have to be as careful. Using lubricants is going to allow your hand to slide over the penis without irritating the skin. Game on.
Of course, if you’re going to be giving him a blow job later, it’s best not to use lotion, just use your spit, you don’t want to gag on the chemicals inside the lotion. Eww.
Combining a hand job with a blow job is what the pro whores do. It’s advanced cock sucking 101, so if you want to make your man’s head spin, you’ve got to get this down. No matter what you’ve been told or read in some back issue of Cosmo, this is how your guy want’s his cock played with.
Now, the first place to start is to get that cock all wet. Let your drool drip down his penis, spit on it, suck it and make sure that it’s fully coated with a nice healthy dose of saliva. Saliva makes an excellent lubricant, hell guys have been jacking off with their own spit from thousands of years. Haha.
The top part of the penis is for sucking and the bottom is for stroking with your hands. Use two hands, girls. As your mouth completes a stroke your hands should also complete their stroke, this way it’s like your mouth and hands are one gigantic entity completely engulfing the entire shaft. Move your hands up and down and twist like your using a pepper grinder.
As with any blow job or hand job, finding the right pressure and slowly building in speed and intensity is one of the keys to success. Find your own sweet spot and stay in it. Wait for the come shot and swallow. Nice work.
Sadly , most girls believe that a blow job is all about sucking on a guys penis. Well that is one part of the story; a good blow job is one where you fire up your man’s senses and put him in a sensory overload, you want him to cum hard don’t you? So here are a few tips on the most effective way to use your hands, mouth and the other organs of your body to give your man a blow job he’ll never forget.
Your hands : Use them for gripping the shaft and stroking up and back down to imitate the sensation of intercourse, you must understand that your mouth is only one part of what goes into the makings for a proper blow job.
Just using your mouth would be like attempting to cook just with veg when you have a range of spices just waiting to be used ; use your hands, fingers, lips, tongue, mouth, and teeth to give your man a blow job which will make him quiver in pleasure. Hold the shaft in your hand and start with light strokes, it’s vital to give him head as your hands work their sorcery on his member; the critical thing to keep under consideration when stroking your mans ‘ shaft is to extend the rate and pressure as you get down to business.
At the start you can begin with slow strokes but go quicker towards the end ; most fellows will struggle to come with just sucking so you would like to stroke your man. The mouth : the larger your mouth the better it is, though not all girls have Angelina Jolie’s lips, essentially more than the visual appeal of a giant mouth is a real treat popularized through modern porn. ; it’s actually due to this that fellows compare a giant mouth and an to a potentially great blowjob. But honestly a girl with thin lips and a little mouth can also give in an equally good, and of course, a better blow job. Big lips don’t guarantee anything. The most vital thing is to go in confidently.
Take your man’s shaft in your mouth and roll your tongue on the head ; this is the most fragile part. Then, start sucking on it rigorously. Initially, slowly rising the pace and pressure as you go on. The tongue: Throw your tongue out like a porn star, this way, you’ll be making more space in your mouth to accommodate your mans cock.
Give particular attention with your tongue to the base of his cock, where the head meets the shaft ; this should drive your guy insane with pleasure.
The eyes : look him in the eyes as you suck him and moan softly or look him in the eyes and say ‘ahha ‘ as you stand by to take his cock in your mouth. Where should you touch him? The head of his cock: This is the tip of the shaft that’s the most fragile part, so use your tongue in each possible part of it
The shaft: Get a firm grip round the shaft, not merely will it be faster to manipulate his member as you give him a blow job but also it feels fabulous for the guy because its like being within a tight vagina The balls : these are also extremely fragile so massage them with love and care, you may also lick, kiss and suck them softly ; while you are sucking his head and using one hand to stroke him, use the other to massage his balls to make him feel a like he’s in heaven and cum crazily.
When making a decision on which position you should give your man a blow job in – I would suggest you to go with the flow. If you’ve been with him for some time you might already know what he prefers – the problem is that he probably didn’t see all the positions you could be in, so he doesn’t actually know what he likes best.
A third of your success when giving him a blow job is based on how you position yourself. Comfort is key. The more confortable it is for both of you the better. If you’re not in a comfortable position then you won’t be able to relax and focus on enjoying the whole thing.
So remember – on first place – comfort.
Men are visual creatures – we like to see things. We want to see you hot and sexy – so don’t even think about turning off the lights. There are probably over 50 positions you can give head in – but there are 2-3 that he’ll enjoy the most. That doesn’t mean you should do anything besides those 2-3 – you need variety from time to time and to spice it up. Too much of a good thing can result in being a bad thing after some time.
It’s important that you’re looking for feedback, see how he reacts in different positions and over time you’ll see what he likes most. My favorite positions to look at a woman while she’s giving me a blow job are:
Top Blow Job Position #1
I’m up, standing, she’s kneeling down between my legs, holding my shaft and looking me straight in the eyes with a smile on her face.
Top Blow Job Position #2
I’m sitting on a couch while she’s kneeling in front of me between my legs. Again, with a sweet and seductive smile on her face.
Top Blow Job Position #3
Another one which is a bit harder to explain so I’ll leave it for later. Let’s say I also enjoy 69 – but in the end, position number 68 is better since she and you are more focused. What’s position number 68? You give me head and I own you one
Unfortunately, most women don’t know how to give good blow jobs. They’re looking for advice from other women that just think they know what are doing – but are in fact more or less clueless. Don’t get dissapointed if you’re not that good – you can learn easily if you invest some time into getting the right knowledge and the real stuff – and not some stupid Cosmo fluff.
I’ll give you a few tips so you can give your man really good blow jobs. The first thing you need to do is change the way you view the whole “oral sex” thing. Over time you’ll see that there’s a lot more psychological stuff involved than physical. Let’s start with some basic tips.
Blow Job Tip #1
Relax. Get yourself to relax. Worrying and thinking negative won’t help you that much. What you really need is to get yourself and him in a comfortable position first. Next, try getting him to relax – but before that, you have to relax yourself. Emotions tend to jump from person to person. So if you’re going to be all nervous and lost – well, you don’t want that happening. Why are you nervous? You’re trying. Even if it’s not the best bj right away – so what? At least you’re trying and every guy will appreciate that. So relax, who cares. It’s not the end of the world. Over time and practice you’ll get better. Just view it as FUN and NOT WORK. Once you get into a playful attitude you can both just laugh about it and enjoy it without worrying about the outcome. That brings us the second tip.
Blow Job Tip #1
Stop expecting an outcome. He doesn’t have to orgasm. When you start worrying about it and thinking (while giving him head) – “Oh, why didn’t he came yet?”, “Am I doing it right?” and other similar stuff – you’ll just make him nervous, then he’ll start thinking “oh no, what if I can’t orgasm, is she tired, maybe I’m forcing this on her, maybe she’s not even enjoying it” – and that certainly won’t bring him to climax. So – relax. And forget about the outcome. Let there be fun, truly enjoy it and whatever. If he doesn’t orgasm this time, so what, he will next time. You just have to get off the stress from yourself and him. When you’re giving him head, you’re the one that’s leading. His pleasure depends on you completely (or pain). So stay in control, and understand that it’s all about controlling his mind.
Any woman can learn good bj techniques – but not every woman can learn how to control a guys emotions during the blow job. That’s what you have to learn if you truly want to be the best he ever had.
Blow Job Tip #3
Would you believe that a simple thing as a smile can make a HUGE difference. All you girls out there that are not smiling, and are all serious when giving blow jobs to their boyfriends or husbands. Hello? Don’t view it as a job. Get a fun attitude and SMILE. You have to convey to him that you’re really enjoying it – and a smile is where you should start.
Those are the basics. Keep on learning and with a little practice, you’ll be the only woman he’ll ever desire. Ever! Such is the power of great bj’s. The good thing for you (once you learn the skills) is that your competition is pretty low. It’s not that hard to be better than average when it comes to giving your man oral. Just a little practice and the right knowledge – that’s it.
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1. What Can You Find in the Blow by Blow Guide?
Besides providing only blow job tips and methods, this guide also includes sections that discuss many issues of sexual health that are seldom talked about in society. For example, you will find information about visual stimulation, waxing, shaving and other less known but great ways to stimulate your partner better. While most women would think that a blowjob is simply a repetitive sucking and licking motion, readers of Blow by Blow will realize that it is much more than just that.
2. My Own Experience after Learning from the Blow by Blow Guide
I was overall pleased with the techniques I had learned and liked how I am able to increase the sexual excitement between me and my partner. The part of the ebook about new sexual positions and locations was very helpful in spicing up and enhancing the sexual pleasures provided by the blowjob methods in the guide. No 2 blowjobs are ever the same for me and my partner now, and we always seem to discover new sensations and exciting moments whenever I apply the techniques I have learned from Blow by Blow.
3. What Are Some of the Drawbacks of the Blow by Blow Guide?
Even though this guide provided my great methods, I must say that a small number of them were quite commonplace and really should not have been included in the ebook. They were a little boring to go through for me personally, but that is just a personal opinion that might not be the same for every woman who reads them.
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Giving a really good blow job would depend not only on the motion of the giver but most importantly the emotion. I have never give a blow job. But from what I would know, because a lot of women have already given me a really good blow job.
So, if you love your man and you want to make him really, really hot just before sex here is How to Give a Really Good Blow Job.
First, in my experience the women who gave the really good blow jobs maintained eye contact with me all through out. They knew exactly where lick, smack, swallow and sometimes even bite. I just hate it when I’m about to come and the girl stops moving. So, never ever stop while giving a blow job.
I remember a really great blow job that I got from this girl named Jenny. I felt like I was really feeling her vagina and not her mouth. The better part of the event was when she would lick the hole of my penis again and again, up and down, spit on it, lick it again. It set my penis on fire. So much that I grabbed her hair and begged her to do it again and again.
My penis is really sensitive. There are certain portions of it where I really enjoy a certain movement. The tip of my penis for example likes it when it gets licked vertically from the base of its head to the top of it. Quick movements are specially appreciated for this.
The longer portion of my penis is stimulated mainly by the lips of a woman. My balls would like the tongue. Lick it up lick it down. Sometimes put all of my balls in your mouth if you would like. That would really be dandy.
In other times I’ve felt that a girl would even go as far as lick to very bottom of my balls. I really have to thank her for it because that’s the first time I ever felt that. She started with my head, by using her tongue. Then she went down to the long portion of my penis with her lips. She licked my balls up, down, left, right and also licked the very bottom of my balls – near my ass. I’m a man but that thing she did to me really made me moan out loud. That’s some basic advice on how to give a really good blow job.
