Although many women know the basics of oral sex, many find themselves stumped when it comes to spicing up their ordinary oral sex techniques. Here are four advanced blow job tips to drive your man absolutely crazy in bed.
Tip #1: Be confident in your ability to blow your lover’s mind. Confidence is sexy, especially when it comes to oral sex. When you’re confident in your ability to deliver pleasure through fellatio, your partner will feel relaxed and comfortable. Your lover will feel more aroused if you are enthusiastic about wanting to perform the blow job.
Tip #2: Remember that the whole genital area is important. Many women focus exclusively on the shaft of the penis when performing oral sex. While stimulation of the shaft feels good, it’s important to remember that there are many components to a penis. A great blow job involves the entire penis, as well as the testicles and area surrounding the penis. Taking time to lick and stimulate the tip of the penis is a great method to heighten your partners arousal. Many men also go crazy when their testicles are stimulated. You may want to touch or fondle the testicles gently while performing oral sex, or you can lick them while manually stimulating the penis.
Tip #3: Use props to enhance your blow job technique. Just using your mouth to stimulate your partner’s penis is fine, but one tip you can use to really spice things up is to use additional props. A classic blow job tip is to have mints in your mouth while performing oral sex. The mint can provide a tingling sensation, which is very arousing to many men. Another prop you can use is an ice cube. Just before going down on him, put some crushed ice cubes in your mouth. The dual sensation of the ice and the heat of your mouth will be a huge turn on and the crushed ice can add an interesting texture, as long as it has no sharp edges.
Tip #4: Drive him crazy with textures. Another advanced blow job tip is to use different textures to enhance your oral sex technique. As mentioned in tip three, many men love the texture that ice can provide. Don’t be afraid to try other textures which may enhance his pleasure. For example, slightly warm hot fudge in your mouth can provide a smoother feel than saliva. Some women use pop rocks to create a popping or vibrating sensation. Beware though, a texture which is too sticky or hot can be unpleasant. If you are interested in safe sex, textured condoms can be used during oral sex. Condoms that are ribbed or twisted are great for this. Be sure to use condoms without lubricants or spermicide when you are using them for oral sex, otherwise the taste may be very unpleasant.
These blow job tips are sure to enhance your love life.